2021.10.16 17:54 Racehorse28 How do I break up with a girl?
I know this is a weird question to ask but I need to break up with a girl for my own good.
We actually love each other and have been together for 4 months now but I'm recently going through a rough patch mentally for unrelated reasons and that has spilled over into my behaviour. I have had more frequent spells of anxiety, symptoms of depression that come and go, and I have basically just been less present in the moment recently.
2 days ago I was in a bad mood and hung up on my girlfriend in a moment when she really needed my support. The next day I tried texting her and she ignored me and then ignored my calls. Now this type of thing is usually no bother for me, but because of my mental state my anxiety came back and suddenly I was scared of losing her. It was in that moment I realised how attached I was to her. She's also very attached to me but that's irrelevant. She eventually answered and I was very 'beta' in my behaviour by my own standards. My voice was high pitched and I sounded nervous. I called her today as well and the same thing happened. She sounded unenthusiastic to talk to me, but she was also sick so that could explain it.
Is all this an overreaction? Absolutely. Is our whole relationship down the drain? Of course not. But in my current mental state, I cannot afford to have constant worry and anxiety in my mind.
She really is an amazing girl and all of this is my fault. She's one of the sweetest and kindest girls I've met, and it's highly unlikely I'll find someone like her again, and I probably won't want to as I don't actually do relationships but made an exception for her.
I really need to rip the plaster off in one go, but I can't bring myself to do it. It was for this reason that I was actually scared of relationships and love, and I actually wanted to break up with her before out of fear but couldn't. But now I absolutely have to. I need to focus on myself, on my studies, on developing myself instead of wasting mental bandwidth on relationship related worries.
What do I do?
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2021.10.16 17:54 SarahTheWolfQueen [F4A] Willing to do any plot, idea, or scene
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2021.10.16 17:54 kiyokoi uhhh questioning bc life is confusing
honestly i have no idea what my sexuality is at this point. i started out with bisexual bc women = pretty but I literally. do not feel what my friends are describing for their crushes. my few “crushes” if you can even call them that are basically me being: person pretty, can they pay attention to me and hold my hand and hug me? i kind of feel like aromantic is similar to what im feeling? but im honestly not sure.
all quizzes are like: do you feel sexual or romantic attraction and im like, you think i even know what these mean? i just want them to hold my hand lmao and i wouldn’t be opposed to a kiss or anything but a relationship isn’t really what i want
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2021.10.16 17:54 Orderswrath 굳이 교정을 세세하게 할 필요가 있을까?
교정자의 입장에서 문장들을 교정하다보면 이런 생각이 들 때가 종종 있습니다. '이 정도까지 세세하게 지적할 필요가 있을까?'. 아마 여기 계신 분들 중에서는 본격적으로 한국 유학이나 취업을 위해 TOPIK 같은 시험을 준비하는 분들도 계시겠지만, 많은 분들은 그냥 취미의 영역에서 한국어를 공부하는 것 같습니다. 그런 분들에게까지 너무 엄격한 잣대로 교정을 하는 건 과유불급이 아닐까 생각이 드네요.
저만 하더라도, 영어를 공부하긴 했지만 영미권 유학이나 취업 등을 생각하고 있진 않으므로 굳이 작문 실력까지 갈고 닦아야 할 필요성이 잘 와닿지 않았습니다. 예를 들어 'a/an/the'의 구분이나, 동사 뒤에 '-s'를 붙이냐 마냐 같은 기본적이면서도 한국어 화자 입장에선 번거로운 부분은 크게 신경쓰지 않게 되더군요. 어차피 레딧 등에서 영어로 소통하는 데는 크게 무리가 없기 때문이죠.
같은 맥락에서, '조금 어색해 보이는 문장을 쓰거나 아예 번역기 등을 사용한 표현이라도 어느 정도의 의미 전달만 되면 괜찮지 않을까' 하는 생각도 종종 듭니다. 물론 한국어 커뮤니티의 경우 이용자들이 여기 레딧처럼 외국인도 많이 이용할 거라는 생각을 하지 않으므로 문법에 대해 좀 더 까다로운 편이긴 합니다만, 그래도 그 부분은 한국어 커뮤니티 쪽에서 고쳐야 할 점이라고 생각할 수도 있겠죠.
그래서 '하고 싶은 말이 무엇입니까?'라고 묻고 싶을 지 모르겠습니다. 여기서 학습자분들에게 해 주고 싶은 말은, 학습자 분들 스스로도 글을 쓰고 한 번 다시 읽어보면서 본인의 글이 어느 정도의 교정을 요구하는 것으로 보이는 지 생각해볼 필요가 있다는 것입니다.
예를 들어 짧은 글이나 오타가 많은 글, 혹은 번역체의 글 등은 학습자분이 요구하는 교정의 수준이 '의사소통이 가능한 수준' 정도로 보이게 만듭니다. 따라서 교정자분들도 간단한 오류는 그냥 넘어가거나, 말 그대로 '최소한의 의사소통'만 가능한 정도로 교정을 하고 굳이 자연스러운 표현으로 고쳐주어야겠다는 생각을 하지 않게 됩니다. 그게 싫다면 '내가 노력했다'는 어필은 하는 게 좋습니다. 예를 들어 '저는 TOPIK Level 6를 준비하고 있어요' 같은 말을 붙이거나, 그 정도는 아니더라도 '맞춤법 검사기를 돌려봤지만 여전히 잘 모르겠어요' 같이 '내가 이 글을 쓰는 데 노력을 들였다'라고 표현을 하면 좀 더 높은 수준의 교정을 받을 수 있을 것입니다
좀 무거운 주제로 이야기한 것 같은데, 분명 공지 중에 '글을 올리기 전에 맞춤법 검사기를 쓰세요'가 있지만 잘 지켜지지 않는 것과 같아서 푸념 삼아 글을 써 봤습니다. 너무 나쁘게 받아들이지 않기 바랍니다.
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